Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Happy tears!


A wonderful day, but emotionally exhausting. Our day started at 7:00 am and we were scheduled to arrive at the IVF center for 8:30. We arrived right at 8:30 and rushed up to the 2nd floor, and fortunately we got there just in time for our embryo transfer, Whew!!! Dr. Yashodhara met us and called us in to the door of the lab where Dr. Pai was laser hatching our embryos. We got to see them on the screen. How amazing that was! What stories we will be able to tell our child, we saw them as an embryo! We then consulted with both Dr. Pai and Dr. Yash as to our results. We had 4 embryos for transfer. 3 grade A and 1 grade B and the other 2 have been left to divide some more, for a possible 5 day sequential transfer, we will keep you updated on that, just continue to send good wishes and prayers our way.

I encouraged Gerry to go in for the transfer this time as I had the opportunity last time. He was overwhelmed by emotions when Rekha said she would be fine with him going in with her. He was able to hold her hand and stroke her head and she looked up at him and said, 'I am strong.' We both had lots of tears of joy and happiness. When her husband saw us he said not to cry, 'no tension, only smile, God will take care.' We got to visit some after the transfer and noticed that Rekha was wearing the necklace we had brought for her as a gift. She told us, 'My friends gave it to me.' Of course again some more tears!

We got to have lunch with all the clients and a lawyer visiting from Canada who is here to learn all about the process and about surrogacy in general. It was a fun time, as we are now waiting, tomorrow is CK and MK's egg pick up and then SB and RB. We had so much sharing and talking about it all.

Now the hard part! We wait and must realize it is all in God's hands and we have done all that we can to make our dream come true to in the end have a beautiful little angel (or 2) to join our family.

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4 comments:

butlerlife said...

Rhonda, I love your stories. I can really get a picture of what is going on there through your blog.

Saying many, many prayers for you and Gerry.

Michele

Lisa said...

Rhonda & Gerry,

Congratulations on your wonderful results! Bob and I have been following your blog and are keeping you in our hearts and prayers!!!

Lisa

Rhonda Wile said...

I am keeping u both in my prayers and am wishing nothing but the best for you. You know that I love you both dearly and can't wait to hear the news that I will have another niece or nephew and that I can buy baby stuff again!!(not that I want it for myself because one child is enough for me). Take care and I will be keeping informed by reading your blog.

Love Rhonda, Mark and Justin xxoo

Anonymous said...

Wow! So very happy to hear that you did so well on your transfer. GROW BABY GROW. I could hardly wait to read your blog this morning as I did lots of prayers waiting for it. What an emotional roller coaster you two are on. We are as near and dear as you are right now, as we will just have to wait for the final results. Only god will know right now, as I am sure he is right in your corner. Keep up the faith. God Bless you all.
LOTS OF LOVE FOREVER AND ALWAYS MOM & DAD
XXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOOOO
P.S Tell Jack to give Frankie baby a hug from us.