As most of you know we have never been shy in sharing the story of our
journey of surrogacy in India. Newspapers, magazines, even an Apple iPod
app...wrote of our journey. We are proud to tell the world we are the lucky parents of 3 amazing little
miracles. Little did I know that one random email I received from a female writer
just 3 short years ago, asking us to do just that, 'share our story', would
forever change our lives.
I gave her the link to our blog (like I had so many times before to various
readers who had reached out to us), and said, 'well here's our blog, If you
think our story is what you are looking for then let us know how we can
help.' We talked for what seemed like hours our first initial phone conversation. After hanging up the phone, out of curiosity, I started to Google her name,
Leslie Morgan-Steiner. Only to discover, much to my amazement (and somewhat
embarrassment) that this woman writer was not just anyone, but a New York Times
Best Selling author of the memoir Crazy Love and the anthology Mommy
Wars.
Meeting Leslie has truly been an honor and a pleasure for me. Not only is
she a brilliant author but one of the most kind, wonderful and inspirational
women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting. For 3 years our family has been a part of her everyday work and she in-turn
has become a part of our family. She has learned some of our most intimate secrets and shared in our journey
of devastating losses and abundance joys.
We first met Mothers Day 2011 when she traveled to Arizona to meet our
little family of 3. Blaze was just 20 months old and the twins were five months
from our second surrogate's due date. Talking with Leslie was so effortless. She
made the often intrusive world of 'media interviews' seem so comfortable. It
was like talking to an old friend. Over the years we have had family gatherings, numerous phone conversations,
dozens of emails and text messages with random crazy questions and reminiscing
with much laughter and tears.
She even traveled with us to India and shared in one of our most precious
life-changing moments, the birth of our twins Dylan & Jett (who took us all
by surprise and scurrying to make last minute flights when they decided to make
an early arrival).
It truly seems like yesterday Leslie (who immediately became his absolute
best friend) was walking hand in hand with Blaze at the Phoenix Zoo.
(AND is already being sold on
Amazon for pre-orders.)
When I first saw the cover it was very surreal! What is my simple little
family's picture doing plastered on the front cover of a book written by an
acclaimed writer??? It was really happening... after years of sharing our tale
and her endless hours work, it was finally all coming together and there it was
in print for the world to see. I couldn't be more proud to have been part of her work.
We are about to enter another crazy roller-coaster ride this fall with the
release of the The Baby Chase. Reviews, controversy, media spotlight, it's all
about to hit us head on.
My hope is simple:
That Leslie's eloquent writings will help others gain knowledge and
understanding of the trials of infertility and see that surrogacy in India can
be a very positive and wonderful experience for all involved.
That maybe it will reach through the pages and touch another life and give
them hope in making their dreams of family a reality.
Or maybe just a great "feel good story" showing that dreams (if you wish
hard enough) really can come true.
So many of you, our blog readers/followers have been along for our ride and
a part of our journey from the very beginning. We hope you read the book, and know that when you do, a part of it
includes YOU, our cheering squad, our outlet to vent, our inspiration, our
solace, our blog land family.
Thank you for being a part of our lives for the last 5 years and thanks for
being apart of our story our BABY CHASE.