Quick up date on our little ones, 
After 3 long days at the hospital I am back at the hotel and in touch
 with the world again.  Jett was discharged from NICU on Friday morning 
to a regular room in the hospital.  We are getting to be old hats at 
this juggling kids from hotel to hospital and back.  Tonight Daddy is on
 Jett duty and Mommy is on hotel duty with the two eldest.  
Jett
 is doing well.  He remains on IV antibiotics and the good news is that 
all the culture reports came back inconclusive so although he definitely
 had neonatal sepsis, the source was undetermined and so the length of 
his IV antibiotics is now 10 days instead of 14.  Which is exciting news
 for us.  He is starting to eat again and still remains a 'lazy' eater, 
but he is taking in a good 30mls every 3 hours and sucking.  Now we are 
just trying to get him to put some weight on.  His big sister has passed
 him in weight when in the beginning she was the light weight of the 
two. 
So...basically our time in India this trip, has 
been one bad turn after another.  Both babies were released to our care 
from NICU on Tuesday, July 19th (remarkably less then 24 hour in NICU 
for 34 weekers)  We had a mandatory 3 day hospital stay on the floor and
 then discharged to our hotel.  Gerry and I did our best juggling all 3 
kids and the twins were (and still are for the most part) very typical 
newborns.. Eat, sleep and poop.  We had a 3 hour schedule and both 
babies wouldn't budge till the 3 hours hit.  Dylan (whom we have already
 nicknamed, 'Our Little Diva.') would be the first to wake and if not 
attended to in 30 seconds she was/is going to let you know.  Jett is our
 laid back 'chilled out' little guy and waits to be attended to.  Both 
are just tiny and we worked (and still are working) on increasing their 
weights.  Although small both were healthy and thriving.
After
 a week or so we noticed Jett was not taking the bottle as he should.  
We reached out to friends and family as this was all new to us.  Blaze 
was such a textbook, perfect little baby, we were spoiled beyond belief 
with him.  We sufficed that Jett was just going to be a lazy eater and 
it was going to take us some work to get him to feed.  Other then that, 
he was a typical newborn.  Finally after trying every trick in the book 
Jett still wasn't eating and got to the point in less then a day to not 
sucking at all.  That's when I became concerned.  It was like the bottle
 was an instant sedative, and when it hit his lips he would fall fast 
asleep.  He was still alert, but starting to have more sleepy periods 
then awake.
We quickly called Dr. Yash and she 
suggested we take him into the ER for an evaluation as it sounded 
possibly like low blood sugar.  Gerry took Jett over to Hiranandani and 
the resident doctor recognized Gerry from when Blaze was born did some 
lab work and said, ;go ahead back to your hotel and we will call you 
with the results in a few hours.'  Jett was stable and although 
lethargic his blood sugar was good.  Thank God for our amazing hotel 
accommodations that are a quick 15 min. rick shaw ride to and from the 
hospital.  This has certainly been a blessing in disguise as we always 
stay at the VITS, we decided to take a leap of faith and try something 
new.  Little did we know what a great decision this would be since we 
have had to make our fair share of visits to the hospital this trip. 
Gerry
 no more made it back to the hotel with Jett when the Doctor called and 
said he needed to return with Jett right away his lab work was abnormal 
and he rattled off a bunch of numbers.  After hanging up Gerry realized 
he should have gave the phone to me to decipher the medical jargon.  (I 
am good for some things. :)  We called Dr. Yash and she got on the phone
 to Dr. Bijal (the Pediatrician) and returned our call immediately.  
Jetts white count and platelets were abnormal and they were going to 
admit him to the NICU with neonatal sepsis.  'It was a good thing we got
 him in when we did as it could have been much worse.' Our hearts sunk 
and the tears flowed.  Gerry headed back to Hiranandani while I stayed 
with the other kids.  Dr. Soni and Dr. Bijal literally met them at the 
door of the hospital.  Jetts bed was waiting for him in NICU.  
They
 started him on IV fluids and 3 different types of heavy duty IV 
antibiotics.  They placed an O2 hood over his head as the nurses noted 
he was have a few very short periods of not breathing.  They placed an 
NG (feeding) tube and started all the testing.  Labs, cultures, CT scans
 and lumbar punctures....
In the mean time Blaze was 
having diarrhea for quite a few days and we expected it was his large 
intake of fresh fruit.  So we cut back only to have the diarrhea 
continue.  We started him on some polyantibiotic liquid and he was still
 drinking and eating well, so we let it run its course.  Expect for the 
fact that the same day that Jett was going to the ER, Blaze now started 
vomiting.  Again we called Dr. Yash (we had her on speed dial this day) 
and she got some meds. ordered for the vomiting.  Dylan (fingers 
crossed) was the healthy one.  Or so we thought.  Docs warned us to keep
 her and Blaze apart.  
Jett was in good hands in the 
NICU.  It was difficult to see him all alone with tubes and lines all 
over the place.  I see this on a daily basis at work with my patients, 
but its a completely different thing when its your helpless child.  We 
were allowed 2 visits daily and Gerry and I rotated so that we didn't 
have to bring the other kids to the hospital and risk getting them 
sick.  His labs were improving slowly and all the culture results were 
coming up negative.  The lumbar puncture was negative for meningitis 
(dodged that bullet!).
In the meantime we needed to 
bring Dylan in for a check up.  We met Dr. Bijal and she had news on 
Jett.  She did a CT of the head and to her surprise it came back 
positive for a grade 1 mild ventral bleed.  Again our hearts sank.  She 
stated that Jett was improving in his alertness and motor skills so she 
was not concerned.  This is not uncommon in preterm babies.  You can't 
imagine the terror of being told your 13 day old son has a brain bleed. 
 Can you see why we have been somewhat tied up now???
Each
 day passed and Jett improved slowly.  Labs were improving the IV fluids
 were slowly being decreased and they started him back on oral feeds.  
The feeding tube came out, the oxygen came off, the Jett we knew was 
coming around!
Unfortunately, our luck with Dylan ran 
out... during her 'routine' check up we found out that her weight 
decreased again,  she now had an umbilical granuloma and oral candida 
not too mention the green goop we noted from her right eye that morning.
 Thankfully none of this serious, just more stress and worries on our 
part with more antibiotics and treatments.  
So fast 
forward to today...  Blaze is still with diarrhea and what a trooper, he
 hasn't skipped a beat with the exception of three times the normal 
diaper changes a day, every time he says, 'uh ohh, poopie' we groan and 
giggle.  Poor little man.  We are quickly running out of diapers and 
wipes.  He is on an oral antibiotic and a second course of 
polyantibiotics.
Dylan's eye is great!  Her belly 
button is drying up and her mouth is free of cooties.  She is eating 
like a champ (twice the amount of her brother) and taking some vitamins 
and minerals to help increase her weight.
Jett remains
 in the hospital still receiving his IV antibiotics, and if all his 
blood work and repeat CT of the brain come back normal on Wednesday, we 
can bring him back to our home-away-from-home here at the hotel to be 
reunited with his big sister and brother.  
Mommy and 
Daddy are worn out from around the clock feeds at two separate 
locations, sick children and the news that we now  have to do DNA 
testing since 'it had been over 3 years since Gerry had frozen his sperm
 and that sample was used for the twins.' Not what we anticipated since 
it was the same sample as Blaze and no DNA testing was required then.  
When it rains it pours!!!!  
Thank you all again for 
your love and support.  They mean the world to us and we are truly 
touched by those who kept us apart of their prayers.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Update... FINALLY!
We haven't lost our sense of humor...
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4 comments:
Lol thats funny, hope you're all doing well !
I am so thankful to hear that my little brother is feeling much better!
May you give him a big hug that lasts longer than a normal "quick hug" for me? Thank you.
Love you all very very much
love kristin
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14 comments:
Grannie Aug 7, 2011 06:36 PM
Oh my, what a whirlwind of worries. T and I were talking and didn't know how you all managed, but prayer works in wonderful ways. I'm so glad everything is now looking up and you can enjoy your new loved ones.
Anonymous Aug 8, 2011 04:39 AM
Wow guys! You will litterally have to turn this blog into a book!! It's so great this is here, the kids will be able to know in detail just where they came from and how blessed they are to have you both!! Praying our love and prayers overwhelm you today with His love, joy and peace!
Jessica
Anonymous Aug 8, 2011 04:46 PM
What a crazy few weeks! We hope for normal bowel movements for all of you. You guys are great and it sounds like the docs are taking great care of all of you as well. Speedy recovery to all!
Love,
Rob, Greg, and Addy
Catherine Aug 8, 2011 06:26 PM
Thanks for the update!! Can't wait to see more pictures:)
Anonymous Aug 9, 2011 03:59 AM
Oh, Rhonda,what a hard time you guys are going through... I'm so glad to read that everything is getting better day by day. I'm thinking of you every day aswell as sending you all health & strength vibes :)
Longing for news about more improvements!
Big hugs!
Anu
Kerrie and Mark Aug 9, 2011 05:28 AM
Glad to read there is improvement!
GeGe Aug 9, 2011 03:01 PM
So difficult to go through this at all let alone without family half way around the world. I am glad to hear Jett is getting better. You must indeed be exhausted. I'll continue to pray for all of you.
The Heffernan's Aug 9, 2011 04:35 PM
So glad to hear that your children are getting better. Hoping that this continues for you and the way home is smooth.
tjudle Aug 9, 2011 07:39 PM
Whew! So much has happened. You guys are amazing! Sending positive energy your way to make it through this rough time. Blessings!
Carla Aug 10, 2011 08:30 PM
What a truly amazing story you have. So many emotions. I look forward to reading that you are on a plane on your way back home. Take care Carla
Anonymous Aug 11, 2011 07:28 AM
Oh God, that is just horrendous, thank God Jett is doing better, have been worried along with the rest of the Indian surrogacy world.
Meg and Tobes x
Bernadette & Duane Aug 11, 2011 11:43 AM
Rhonda,
I am so glad that things are taking a turn for the better. I hope everything continues in the same direction from here on out!
I have to tell you that I owe you a VERY long overdue thank you. When we first started looking into surrogacy in India, Blaze's was one of the first blogs I came across. It is because of people like you, that we had the courage to pursue our recent trip to India. We never would have known about this option had it not been for people like you who were brave enough to share their story. Thank you and all the best to you and your family!!!
Oddity Acres Clan Aug 12, 2011 04:49 PM
My Gawd it has been a hellish time for you all. Sending much healing, love and peace.
May your babies all be well and in your arms again soon. xo
Douglas Aug 14, 2011 10:39 AM
Rhonda and Gerry,
Wow, you all are troopers! We are still sending the most positive thoughts your way. Your Jett is quite the fighter. Yay for tough babies!
Peace and good health to you soon,
Douglas and Chad
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